Bored, irritable & taking it out on my boyfriend..ideas?

I've had the same problem and i'm at the same age. My problem is not due to medical bills just that I got into "living" to fast you know like buying a house, truck, this that and living a life that took up exactly how much money I was making, but now I'm stuck working the same job, night shift for 12hrs in a factory as a grunt. It's like i'm in a rut and can't get out, and I do take it out on my wife some times and I know it just makes things worse. Now not only are you depressed about your situation you also feel guilty for treating the one you love like crap. The only thing I can tell you that has worked for me is to realize that once you get out of this crap your in you will be able to handle anything. You are a strong person it's not easy dealing with stuff like this, but it will be okay and you will get over it. The bills will get paid you'll be able to ditch one job and then the vacations and relaxing will come in. Just hang in there and remember to think before you say and do things with your boyfriend cause if you treat him badly it's just gonna make you feel a whole hell of a lot worse. So just smile keep working hard and remember it will all work out in a little while it always does then you and your boyfriend can go on a vacation.....