What is Christian love? Is it the same thing according to a Christian as it is to a non-believer? My thought?

is that it can be something different. Christian love is not always"cow-towing" to what unsaved people think. Truth is not always pleasant and truth is a huge part of love. I do believe that love is the foundation for Christianity (or at least SHOULD be). But, we are admonished to speak the TRUTH in love.