Tell me why you hate the me Lark?

Because it sounds like you chose it on a lark...pun intended. If you like bird names, try Wren. It's cute and is more frequently used for humans. I've seen it as a middle name sometimes. It can also be spelled Renn. Another name you might consider is Paloma, which means dove in Spanish. Or if you just like nature names try Willow, Autumn, Summer, Skye, Rose, Lily, Iris, Lakin, Oceana, Misty, Brook, Rainne, etc.